Friday, December 31, 2021

Kirribilli Gothic

 It is rare that I see a low hanging fruit like this and get excited about it. The frame in my mind had all elements of a good story. 


A building with a certain air, mysterious and nonconformist, as if an affluent person lived in 1920s, someone like The Great Gatsby, was looking down on me. There was a Christmas tree thrown on the sidewalk opposite to the entrance.  

The plants on terraces stood with eerie presence. I could not help but thought the Christmas tree was not welcome there, and the plants domineered their owners so that they had no option but get rid of the tree.

Inspirations:



Sunday, December 19, 2021

Gravestones

I had an appointment with a tax accountant in Parramatta, a major commercial hub, on a hot summer day in 2021.

A few heritage buildings were sprinkled here and there in the heart of Parramatta CBD. They look like lost ghosts painfully looking for an exit. The main scene is office workers on a lunch break walking by. Not seeing the ghosts. 


While walking back to the car park, I noticed a low brick wall surrounding a land, about the size of a soccer field, even smaller. The sign outside read “St John’s Cemetery, oldest cemetery in Australia, 1790”.


At the entrance I stood and read pale photocopies of info sheets hung on the cemetery’s billboard behind a glass with fingermarks. Oldest burial was in 1790 when French Revolution was one year old.  


"To the memory of William New. Died May 7th 1839. Aged 11 years he has a fond father and mother and five brothers and sisters."   


Outside, cars and buses were whooshing by. A traffic light mounted above the wall turned red. I heard the loud chirpy sound of pedestrian warning.    
 


Engravings on old dark stones weathered. Oldest ones are not readable anymore. Like in all cemeteries it is not hard to figure out who was rich who was poor, who was hastily piled up reusing the grave once grandpa was buried alone, who was adult, who was child. Tiny gravestones of children who died of famine or pestilence. Lives cut short in a strange country scourged by sun.


Someone threw empty pet bottles and trash on a grave next to the entrance. I turned and walked away.

Further up I saw a dried rose left at the corner of a stone mound, engravings not readable. 

Someone cares. 

A sudden wind shakes the branches of an oak tree. 

Dead whisper, "remember us". 

Saturday, December 11, 2021

Listen

When you actively listen you will find a whole new world.

If you can enter the talker’s skin their world will gradually unfold, the depth and expanse of their world will grow illuminated by their story.

The more you eliminate your judgements from this picture the more you will be enlightened.

Like mindfulness meditation, active listening is a faculty you can harness by practicing.

Humility

The strength in Humility is grossly underestimated. When realised Humility allows harnessing the best in others.

Vibe

It is a mistake to undermine specialisation in a team. Everybody has a different vibe that drives best in them. A good leader seeks to exploit vibes that collectively make the harmony in a team.

Minimum Viable Product

M in MVP is the only variable. You may vary M to buy time to market in exchange of nice to haves. But the lure of profit can be blinding as you may find it tempting to touch V which will ruin sacrifices made in M.